in response to seekinghelp2012...how do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time. the answer is a snowball effect with a livable budget. key word livable. you cannot live on romen noodles and staying home. but you can eliminate that debt on your own con-solidation places are just that. even if they are ligit and mean well the power needs to lye on you. i have done this too. live and learn trust me snow ball that 500.oo a month in ten months you would have taken care of 5,000 of that debt, but at the rate it will go faster than that. because your other debts will be eliminated entirely. write down all of you debts even if there is an over due library book. 1 dollars. to largest debt home mortguage. pay only the minimum payments on all of them and focus the remaining money on the smallest or smallest 2-3 debts say a furniture bill or small credit card. and then pour the savings into next months debts and repeat. i got a easy to under stand from a chapter in the book called "Getting control: the complete guide to getting yourself out of horrible debt by troy flora available on amazon.com good luck! any qestions just ask me. i did it and you can too.
in response to truckerdoug58...Exactly!!! I'm back in Atlanta now, and I am looking for every little bit of work so I can pay these people off their money. I use to drive trucks in the army and now I would love to go to school for my CDL lic..
Well I hope you get everything situated for yourself. I am really deep in the hole which I must crawl out of; but I'm slowly making my way out.
in response to ras1811...Pat It seem you and I are kinda in the same boat. I was a long haul truck driver. I have two tickets not paid that has my lic. suspended. The speeding ticket in Ohio 145.00 I know I owe. The overweight ticket in manchester Tn. The company was susposed to pay. They didn't now I owe 170.00 for it. With reinstatement fee, dup. copy of lic. and all 650. will put my CDLs back in my hands.I just had to have neck surgery Dec.20. I have not been able to work since July 2010. What is born and bread Americans supposed to do when they have no way to do any thing? I dont quailfy for Tenn. care, to help with medical help.I could go back to work in no time with my lic.
in response to bookworm2011...Little bit of this and a little bit of that. Haha No nothing new. Sounds like you have your hands full. Tell the one who's going to Mexico to be careful. It's deffaniately not like America in most of the country, to much corruption. Just have him keep his eyes open and when someone says duck they aren't talking foul.The one being potty trained, I'm not touchig that with a ten foot pole.You are probably right about the girls, when any kid and I mean any is quit for any length of time count on trouble of some sort.
in response to Schmidty...I've been around..doing a little of this, a little of that lol
working mostly and forever busy with my kids..one is about to go to Mexico to build an orphanage so running around trying to get his passport in time..the other is potty training..vast differences! Both extremely important nontheless..and my girls have both been pretty quiet this week, which spells trouble in some form or the other..thats about it, how about you? Anything new?
in response to aali...Sorry to hear of your plight.You can get a hold of the Dept. of Education here in the states and see if they have a program. Try:
1. eastafricaneducation.org/services
2. allafrica.com/stories/201109120005.html
3. www.eacef.org
4. www.africaguide.com/charity.htm
5. www.net4kids.org/en/.../east-africa-computer-education-in
6. www.aed.org/Regions/Africa/east-central-africa.cfm
7. www.usaid.gov/locations/sub-saharan_africa/initiatives/
8. www.greeleytribune.com/article/20081207/TRIBEDIT/812069934
This is all I could find, hope it is a help to you. Contact them and ask for assistance.
Good Luck and God Bless
Greetings everyone. I want to share a problem I have. For five years I have been trying to resolve a traffic violation that was given to me due to lack of funds. I use to be a U.S. soldier in the active duty Army. When I no longer was in the Army, I decide to enroll in college. Well one particular day over five years ago, I was trying to film a school project from my vehicle. Honestly I did not have any money compared to the amount of money that was being paid to me from the military. Times was hard and I had no insurance on my vehicle, to include expired license plates, and expired registration when I was attempting to film a project. The police assumed that I could be part of some terrorist organization because I was trying to film planes at a small regional airport. The vehicle was towed by the police for lack of all the traffic violations. Every since those fines, I have not been able to obtain a good job without drivers license since my license was revoked due to the traffic violations. The fine is $1,405.00 all together since it was three different violations. I have not been able to save nor raise that kind of money, because over the last five years I spent 3 and a half of those years a full time college student. I really need to find a way or some help to remove this from my record so I can possess license and obtain a decent or excellent career or job. I have had a few small jobs, but they only assisted me in helping pay rent, food, public transportation, and utilities. I really would like to do better for myself, and help others in the process. If only I could resolve this problem, then I will be able to return the favor to someone who needs the help one day. Does any person out there know a logical solution, or can anyone lend a helping hand? Thanks for reading this.
in response to seekinghelp2012...Consolidating debts is rarely the best way to go in trying to reduce your debt levels. Best thing to do is to develope a budget and a plan and stick to it.
Does anyone know of a place to consolidate debts for persons with bad credit. I would even consider peer to peer lending if there are any wealthy individuals willing to help a single, graduate student, with a full time job. I've suffered some financial misfortunes but I'm trying to get back on track. I need about $50,000 and I can comfortably pay be $450 - $550 per month. Please help in any way that you can and it will be greatly appreciated.
in response to Schmidty...Dumb...Dumb....Dumb I sent a message to the your counter partThen I realized after sometime that you had changed your name, had to change your name. I can't figure out why.
All this upgrading that AIDPAGE has done , or at least says they have done has only made it slower and now the one to one is screwed up, it goes to a little white box and hangs up.Can't type nothing, have to go back a page or click out completely. Both of those would surely be a turn on for anyone just coming to the site, it's a shame it use to be a damn good site. Not no more.
Enough , Heres wishing that you have a happy and prosperous new year.Trala boomde a.
in response to ...hi, iam 52 years old honorable usmc, support my wife (cancer servior), my grandson (autistic),,,while my daughter handles her college studies. i moved from connecticut to nc hoping to live easier. i just had my car taken away 2 days before christmas with christmas presents and all personel belongings. it took 5 days to find out where my car was. It already went on the trade auction. Now no car we rentted a car. i dont miss the 500.00 payments a month,but need help for downpayment and low monthly payments for short term.
thanks chris kelly,, teresa, and hayden
in response to bookworm2011...That is fantastic.It soounds like you will do well.I'm happy for you. Looks like wishing you a properous new year wasn't a shot in the dark. Am I going to see commercials about your school on TV? lol
You have a wonderful new year. Best wishes. Keep in touch when you can.
in response to Schmidty...Hey again Schmidty..my business is tutoring.I work for teaching public schools but have began my own tutoring business due to high demand in my area..I homeschool my kids and the charter school I homeschool them through wants to set me up as a vendor, they would send kids to me so that would mean quitting my teaching job and relying full time on referrals..so Im going to give it a go and see where it leads...my best wishes to you in 2012..I hope that you have a wonderful new year as well..
cheers!!
in response to bookworm2011...Laying ground work for a business seems to be the order of the day..Very glad that you and the kids have enjoyed the festivities of this season. The lights are a major attraction for adults and children alike.
Ease into the new year, that mayb from putting on the brakesbecause of the wall we will run into next years end.
I do hope you do well in your busiess. What business would that be. Mine will be on the internet of course. IM they call it. May you have a properous New Year.
Tootles
in response to Schmidty...Hey there friend...I had a wonderful Christmas and I hope that you did too..the highlights were making cookies for friends and driving to see all the lights people put up...the kids and I get a kick out of that...we also saw several musicals and Christmas plays at the local churches..such a busy season Im glad things are slowing down now and we can ease into the new year...trying to start my own business as we finally have bills paid off and wont be such a loss if the new business doesnt make it but I wont know til I try..thats what Ive been up to, how about you? hope to hear from ya soon
char :)
in response to sandra35...Been doing a little bit of this and a little bit of that, nothing really important.The weather has been great for the month of December. In growing up this is the kind of weather we would have in the fall in preparation of winter.Thank you for the kind words.Have a happy New Year.
in response to Schmidty...Schmidtys, Good morning, to YOU!! I had a merry holiday. So what have yoU been doing these days? How's the weather there? It's been VERY nice here. UNBELIEVABLE!! Well, I will LOOK forward to hearing back from YOU. Until then, enjoy your day and know that YOU were MISSED, but NEVER forgotten! God bless, YOU:) SANDRA35
in response to bookworm2011...I'm going to have to put curtains up if you can see me, lol, Yes it's been a while.I hope y had a very Merry Christmas and that you will have a properous New Year. What have you been up to? When You get time let me know. Later
in response to sandra35...We are always connected, look at the screen. I am wishing you and yours a prosperous New year and I hope you had a fullfilling Christmas Day.Thank you for the kind wishes and thoughts. I'm proud and glad to know you . May your heart always be filled with happiness.
Merry Christmas, Schmidty!! Merry Christmas to YOU!! Hope YOU are doing well. Nice weather here in Nebraska. I wanted to send YOU MANY WISHES. I do think of YOU often. I have missed YOU. Of course, I have NOT been here either. Hope we connect again. Remember: Jesus is the REAL reason for the season!! And today is a GOOD reason also to say, I AM PROUD TO SAY, "I KNOW YOU!" God bless, YOU!!
in response to SADLYME...I agree with what you are saying. I have 2 daughters and they have not received enough money to give or get anything new or even used in 3 years. I have congestive heart failure so I live on 602.00 a month where is my help?
Hello Everyone, My name is Mrs jullietta Chuks located in London, i will advise you contact Ms Melissa Pravo for an urgent loan. She is reliable and genuine. She gave me a loan of $62,500 when my family was really in bad shape with finance.She gave me the loan when at the exact time i needed it. I have a new restaurant business and all of my debt has been cleared. I have made a promise within me that i must advertise for her business because of what she has done for me. Contact her through her email at melissa_financialinc@msn.com She will help you with your loan only if you will agree with the loan terms and condition. God Bless You Goodluck
in response to seniorvet...If you go to www.grantgate.com or www.thefederalmoneyretriever.com you'll find a very discriptiveArticle on how and what you need to write a grant.The programs themselves also help including the 'letter of inquiry". That grant writer may be you! Is there something you need specific that I could help with? Good Luck and God Bless
I'M CRYING EVERYDAY FOR HELP MY FAMILY IS IN NEED OF A PLACE TO CALL HOME..IM A MOTHER OF FIVE BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND WOULD LIKE TO BE STABLE AND ABLE AGAIN..NO JOB NO CHRISTMAS, SO IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME AND MY FAMILY I WOULD GLADLY APPRECIATE IT. I WISH I COULD HIT THE LOTTERY ONEDAY AND NEVER BE BROKE AGAIN IF SOMEONE CAN HELP MY FAMILY WERE GOING FROM HOUSE TO HOUSE AND MY KIDS DONT DESRVE THAT THEY DIDNT ASK TO BE HERE.. PEOPLE TELL ME ALL THE TIME GOD IS NOT GOING TO PUT SOMETHING ON YOU THAT YOU CANT HANDLED I BELIEVE THAT TO BE TRUE.. IM A TRUE BELIEVER EVEN THOUGH I HARDLY EVER GO TO CHURCH MY KIDS LOVE CHURCH, AND I TRY TO SEND THEM ON A REGULAR BASIS.. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP US MY MOM HAS EVEN GIEN UP ON ME AND DONT WANT MY FAMILY TO STAY WITH HER UNTIL I GET ON MY FEET SHE'S NOT TRYING TO HELP ME AT ALL.. YOU WOULD THINK YOUR MOM OUT OF ALL PEOPLE SHE'S AGAINST ME.. FOR SOME REASON R NTHER.. WEN I WAS YOUNG SHE BASICALLY LET ME DO WHAT I WANTED IS THE REASON IM IN THIS SITUATION WITH FIVE KIDS AT A YOUNG AGE... SOMEONE HELP MY FAMILY WOULD APPRECIATE IT WERE WELL RESPECTFUL WE DONT DESERVE THIS LORD.. GOD BLESS
in response to running the race...Up by my profile picture you'll find a small header that says post. click on it and in the middle of the page you find a list of post that I have made. You can use any and all that you need to use that will help you. It's the same for the other contributers that have post.
How do i begin to find the help i need? Iam 2200..dollars behind in my rent ,im a stylist working out of my home. I have been behind on all my bills for a time, and now its xmas. I desire to do right by every one but it just dosent seem to go that way . I know and believe things will turn around,it just gets realy hard sometimes. I have a 17,9,3 and 2 year old I want to find some way to get back on top of my bills and rent and yet still provide a xmas.... any direction is useful/
i am looking for donations or toys and i really need help i have a daughter she ten and my son who is four and i have been having a difficult time this year please help i am disable and i cant even get a tree please help this kids have a nice christmas god bless your hearts and i hope ya have a merry christmas and thank you
in response to bookworm2011...Glad to heaar you are doiing well, sorry to hear of your problems, but glad they are panning out for you.
Yes, after Shiela passed, I think we all went into shock, that and finding out thatsusie and susie's son were one and the same and were scamming people.Before that APT doing what they did.The page hasn't been the same since.
Sorry, you couldn't get your name back but hey, a new time, a new beginning. tally ho and all that rot.Good to have you back. You know about staarshine don't you?
Hello all hope that you had a great holiday! I go by the name madlived because it is the combination of my three wonderful children names. My Thanksgiving Holiday was hard because my son is in the hospital and has been for a month. I am a hard worker but I am struggling financially and I was wondering if anybody could help me with info for Christmas help. I am willing do work for someone in exchange. Please contact me if you have any idea's.
Thanks and hope to hear back:)
in response to Schmidty...Hi Schmidty,
Well I have been doing well but had alot of family problems for a while that kept me away from the page but things have gotten back on track, thank God...also with shiela's passing, threw me for a loop and had me in shock for a while...I am messaging Sandy and a few others to let them know Im back..changed the name because I deleted my account before and cant get my old name back..glad to see your still here and hope you are doing well...take care
in response to bookworm2011...Well, how are you doing.Haven't seen you on here for awhile. Curious about the name change, what's up. How have you been and how are things going for you.I know that sandy24 was worried about you alsol
Good to have you on here again. May God Bless
in response to carolmom65...It seems reasonable but I am not a lawyer, it would be best to talk to a lawyer and seee what he says. Many allow a free consultation.
can i sue an ex landlord for not taking care of roaches? i just found out, i am very ill because of exposer to the roaches. i now have H.pylori and antibiotics arent working.
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I am a 49yr old father who is unemployed, receiving public assistance and going to school in the Bronx, NY. I barely make ends meet and I am very proud of my son who is doing great in school. Putting my pride in my pocket, I am asking anyone who can, to help me give a great kid (my handsome son Brandon) a Christmas gift. I am very embarrassed in having to ask, but I don't know who else to ask. If there are any Santa's out there who can help me, I would very much appreciate it. My name is Leonardo Vega and my son Brandon is 11 years old. My email is cano1362@yahoo.com and I will give you my phone number when you email me so we can talk. Thank you world, Love saves the Day!